Em

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"literally living my dreams? like holy shit"

27, Polyamorous, Butch, Gender-fluid Lesbian, Disabled

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living, loving, lesbian-ing

Category: Life

Goodbye Instagram and TikTok, it's all about the blogosphere for this gal I have felt so overwhelmed by mainstream social media in the past year. I left TikTok completely in October, and I am in the process of leaving Instagram. The only social media I currently use is Tumblr, and I'd like to use this more to just blog general thoughts and occasional life updates. There is something very freeing a... » Continue Reading

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Back from the dead as they say

Category: Life

I had a stroke back in August. I am only just now starting to get back into the swing of everything and wow.. it's been a lot.   It feels like my entire world stopped, but everything else kept going. I still don't really know what life looks like for me now. » Continue Reading

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New Chapter, Same Bed

Category: Life

So I'm still bedbound.  .-. I have accepted it as my new normal, and have taken the time to figure out what life looks like for me now. I also gave myself space for grieve. That was the biggest step I have taken in these past nearly two and a half months of being bedbound.  But now, I am ready to move forward into the future » Continue Reading

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Bedbound Chronicles pt. 8

Category: Life

I'm engaged! my long distance partner came to visit me this past weekend. since I'm bedbound, we just spent time sitting together, watching tiktoks, making pony bead bracelets, and cuddling. it was honestly so needed for both of us. just getting to be with them was the mood boost I needed for sure » Continue Reading

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Bed Bound Chronicles pt. 7

Category: Life

SEIGEBSEGJEOIGEKJAENLAEHGBEAAWEAKF yeah that's about where my brain is at, tbh .-. brain fog is so rough man, it's a symptom that doesn't get talked about much, but it can be really debilitating. it certainly is for me. It's hard to come up with things to do while I lay here all day when my brain feels like it's full of cotton. I am doing my a » Continue Reading

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Bed Bound Chronicles pt. 6

Category: Life

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY- oh right, I forgot to update yesterday so I can't make that joke Anyways, it's day 14 my dudes. I have come to accept that this is my new normal, and my family and I had a discussion today about what that means for all of us going forward. I a » Continue Reading

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Bed Bound Chronicles, pt.5

Category: Life

For FUCKS sake... Actually managed to get out of the house today with much help from my family, but then I had 4 seizures in a Dairy Queen. So. .-. The good news is that I had therapy today, which is always really good for my mental state. my therapist is awesome and we vibe really well. She gave me some tips for dealing with this new physical normal for me, and I spent some time doing the homewor... » Continue Reading

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The Bed Bound Chronicles, pt. 4

Category: Life

10 days. 10. days. TEN FUKING DAYS.TE- I'm sick of this shit lol I'm able to get from my bed to my wheelchair by myself now, which I consider an accomplishment. but I still need help with everything else .-. I w » Continue Reading

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Bed Bound Chronicles, pt. 3

Category: Life

Day 9. * sigh * So despite my time at the hospital yesterday, and the meds they gave me, I'm still bed bound. And also somehow I am in even more pain. so. .-. needless to say I am not thrilled. I've found myself diving into music even more while being bed bound this time. I've discovered lots of new artists, and found new songs I love. the list is far too long to really name them » Continue Reading

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The Bed Bound Chronicles: pt. 2 electric boogaloo

Category: Life

Bed bound day eight... uh, lets go? If you haven't figured out by the rest of my profile, I am a  millennial. the youngest possible age to still be a millennial, but I don't personally relate to gen-z. love them to pieces, and have multiple lovely gen-z people as my partners. but there are plenty of times that we have to translate some of our referen » Continue Reading

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The Bed Bound Chronicles

Category: Life

So I am bed bound right now. Have been for a week. I have chronic fatigue syndrome (also known as ME/CFS), so being bed bound is something I am definitely not a stranger to. Typically however, I am only bed bound for a day, maybe two. If I'm in a particularly bad flare, three or four days is understandable. but I am currently on day seven and this is by far the longest I've ever been like this » Continue Reading

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Ah, yeah, it's July time

Category: Life

Happy Disability Pride month! I am gay *and* disabled so I get extra recognition this month. however, almost nobody knows about disability pride month so 0+0 still = 0 XD On a real note, disability pride is really important to me and I hope more people can learn about this month! July is disability p » Continue Reading

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