i'm not writing a dni list because i think they're often more about performance than safety. people use them to signal morality or boundaries, but they usually end up vague, contradictory, or just alienating. you never really know who you're interacting with and a list with 30 bullet points won't change that. so here's a bit more about me and what you should know before interacting: i'm into weir... » Continue Reading
hai hai, my name is dev or vesper, i'm 18, from southern california!! preygendered faggot, occasional dyke, toyboy, girlfailure. anarcho-commie freak. i like weird music, weird movies, weird people. hobbies include playing instruments, DJing, going to shows, collecting physical media & stuffed animals, writing, sewing, and giving myself piercings. fav shows: south park (only show i watched for 3 ... » Continue Reading
genuinely asking why people wanna police made-up stories so bad?? i think people take it too seriously tbh but if you have strong opinions on this topic PLEASE comment » Continue Reading
i blurt out vile things, but there are secrets i know to keep. i confess in a tongue only He knows. i speak when i shouldn't, and go quiet when told. i am seen as "defiant," but when i return he tells me i am "good and pliant." i just need to be reminded of the role i hold and keep following his word, do what i'm told. » Continue Reading
seeking creatures who understand the concept of a dad that isn't biological but is structural ... if you understand PLEASE be my friend!!! i just want buddies around my age (18-21) who get weird dynamics/kink-adj stuff and won't judge me :3 i also like cartoons, music, and psychology!! if anything on my profile grabs your attention pleaseeee message me i'm so bored and need new friends !!! » Continue Reading
i'm so bored please dm if you wanna be friends . preferably freaks that like cartoons and don't mind weird/taboo things . i am sick and tired of chain-smoking out of boredom ... » Continue Reading
why is it SO HARD to find people my age who are actually weird disgusting freaks!!!! nowadays people are like "omg i'm such a freak XD" and then you say one real freak thought and they are horrified . if you're a freak and you have tumblr PLEASE hmu !!!!! » Continue Reading
boyfriend and i went to flea market and yard sale on saturday :3 we got so much cool stuff!! i got DVDs (season one of dexter, popeye, 22 cartoon classics), bucky the beaver and claude the crab beanie babies, and zebra print key knife. we share anyways i'm just putting them in categories based off who wanted them. the torch lighter, dab pick, carb cap, and mexican candy we both wanted. the camera » Continue Reading
last night i got really overwhelmed and was having a hard time regulating. instead of trying to "be a grown up" my boyfriend just handled it and calmed me down. like he's my dad. it's kinda the best thing ever. i was crying so hard and he helped me calm down and pack a bowl and smoke and asked me if i want him to be more like a dad sometimes. he does a lot for me and i really think of him that way... » Continue Reading
just curious about people's thoughts on this topic, what do you consider an okay age gap? i'm talking about relationships between adults (18+). sometimes people get weird about my relationship because i'm 18 and my boyfriend is 24, and it made me wonder what's considered "okay" to most people. » Continue Reading
for those that don't know, tme and tma are acronyms for "transmisogyny exempt" and "transmisogyny affected." so, tme = trans people who don't experience transmisogyny and tma = trans people who experience transmisogyny. so far, i've only seen these labels on tumblr and i'm not sure if this discourse is popular anywhere else but here's my take on it. people need to stop acting like transmisogyny i... » Continue Reading