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How to stay safe on SpaceHey: a big guide! (PSA)

A lot of people say that SpaceHey is their comfort website with a lot of interesting people and pretty profiles, which I agree with, I absolutely love this space <3 

But please be aware of users you befriend and chat with especially if you're a minor! Do not click on suspicious links, do not share sensitive information. Check every profile before interacting with them, if they make you feel uncomfortable - feel free to block them. 

Keep in mind that it's an open online space, not only chill alt people have access to it. Stay safe!

I encourage all the people to share their negative experience (respectfully) and advices in the comments to raise awareness. I'll update this blog with your examples and advices, let's make SpaceHey safer <3

Disclaimer: This blog is not meant to offend moderators, creators of SpaceHey or any user in general. Its purpose is to spread online safety awareness. All the users listed in the blog are not associated with me.

I will not put the links to any profile that breaks the rules, only use evidence of their dangerous activity as examples. 

If you want the mention of your blog/profile removed from this post - comment about it please <3


Advices:


Some points from Spacehey's TOS and Content Rules that aren't that obvious:

  • Minors under 13 years old are not allowed to use SpaceHey. If you're under 13, please understand that this rule was made with your safety in mind!
  • Impersonating other people is prohibited, if you're a parody account you need to specify it in the "About me" section in a way that is easily accessible to other users.
  • You are not allowed to post self-harm and suicidal content on SpaceHey. If you do self-harm or have suicidal thoughts please seek professional help or contact crisis lines I listed down below.
  • SpaceHey is not responsible for any third-party links & ads, so don't just mindlessly click on links, they are not checked beforehand.
I've seen people say that so called "call-out posts" are also prohibited but it wasn't stated in the TOS nor the Content Rules. So I guess they are fine as long as you stay respectful and don't provide false information, don't post any threats, etc., but I'd recommend posting these kinds of blogs only if your report hasn't been reviewed by the mods for over a week just in case.

I only included small parts of all these documents, so I recommend actually reading the TOS and the rules, rely on them when reporting a user!



Suggestions for staying safe on here and online in general for minors. 

(by Child of Light from this blog)

(1) Don’t put your exact age, and certainly not your actual date of birth on your profile. Simply put minor and don’t specify whether you’re an older or younger minor.

(2) Don’t put your real name on your profile. Not even just your first name.

(3) Don’t use an actual photo of yourself as your profile picture.

(4) If someone says anything inappropriate to you or asks for photos or personal information just block and report them immediately.

(5) NEVER ever agree to meet anyone irl. You can be literally putting your life in danger by doing that.

Also I'd add:

  • Keep your DMs to "friends only"
  • Don't post any photos of yourself,your house, neighbourhood, school, etc. If you really want to, you can private your profile to friends only and limit the friend list to the users you trust. 
  • Don't interact with people that are way out of your age range.
  • Don't post any "horny" content even if it doesn't break the rules.
  • Learn more about online grooming and how to identify it. For example groomers like to use "love bombing" - 
    the action or practice of lavishing someone with attention or affection, especially in order to influence or manipulate them.
  • Be cautious of any user even if they said to be a minor as well.

If you're a minor - please take these advices seriously! 

Also, if you don't really care about the social part of spacehey and only here for decorating your profile - I recommend you to just private your profile.


Friend request/DM red flags

(took first 4 points from this blog by darkn'sweet and this section is overall inspired by them)

  • They're an adult where 99% of their friends list are minors.
  • They have nothing on their profile or they barely have anything about themselves.
  • They call you pet names in the first conversation you have with them, keep asking you if you ate everytime you talk to them, etc. (this is a love bombing tactic).
  • Their profile picture is AI or a generic anime picture (these people are most likely scammers). 
  • They lie about their age (doesn't matter how old they are, just this fact alone is a red flag).
  • They insist on you sending them pictures of yourself, private socials, your address or any other personal info when you don't even know each other well / you already told that you're uncomfortable sharing these. It doesn't matter if they themselves shared any of this, you're not obligated to share personal info if you don't feel like it.
  • They advertise their products or services in a thread that is not made for self-advertising / in your DMs during your first conversation (most likely a scammer)
  • They vent or share very personal info during your first conversation.
  • They have a clickbait-y nickname (example).
  • They immediatly ask for your age after you add them.
If they tick most of these boxes be wary!


Useful links <3


Examples of dangerous users, scams, etc.:

TW: mentions of gore, abuse. I redacted some details.




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bulletin by darkn'sweet

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(the same scam) from this blog by Tarrabyte.exe

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from this blog by Dreamy_chan (description of animal abuse and gore)

Unnamed1from this blog by xXp3yton_p3roxideXx (description of gore)

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the same scam, from this blog by Krade

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more details in this blog from Rotan Eater

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got the same scam in my dms btw! from this blog by Onnaya

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Also be aware of impersonating accounts, I don't know if they still exist now, but 1-2 years ago there were copies of real accounts and they would post some unhinged ragebait stuff. For example this blog from silk chan

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a fake of a real store. (even if it was a real one it's still prohibited to post unsolicited or unauthorized advertising, promotional materials according to spsacehey tos)
here's an example of their socials to show the difference between a real shop and this scam:

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the difference is pretty easy to see but it can be much harder when it comes to small creators, so always pay attention to the links! 
read more about the botted company accounts on SpaceHey (by Shæ)



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Really appreciate this valuable piece of information. I consider it very useful even for people that are +18/+21, helps to be aware of the sites one visits to interact even if it's just to unwind or find things in common with other people. Evil is everywhere and one never knows who's behind the screen interacting with you. But in the end is very consoling to find kind people like you offering this resources. Thank you very much, have a wonderful day/night


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oh damn im probably fucked


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