We talk about love as if it’s proven through endurance. As if staying is always more meaningful than leaving. “You don’t give up that easily.” “Real love takes effort.” “All relationships are hard.” » Continue Reading
Beauty is often talked about as if it’s something neutral. As if it’s just a matter of luck, genetics, or personal taste. But beauty has never been neutral. Who is considered “put together,” » Continue Reading
Being constantly tired has started to feel normal. It’s almost described like a personality trait. “I’m always busy.” “I’m tired all the time, but I’m used to it.” “That’s just how I am.” » Continue Reading
Being smart is praised in theory, but in practice it often makes people uncomfortable. Especially when you’re a woman. You’re told to speak up, but not too much. » Continue Reading
Not all harm comes from bad intentions. Sometimes the people who hurt us the most are the ones who say, “I’m just saying this for your own good.” Those who give advice without asking, » Continue Reading
There are things that have been building up inside me for a long time. Sometimes because of a book I read, sometimes because of a headline, sometimes because of an ordinary sentence. “You’re exaggerating.” “Don’t make everything political.” » Continue Reading