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I'm starting to really dislike this website's community

You might remember me from the SpaceHey survey I ran a while back and be wondering where the update is. Well, there won’t be one.

I actually finished the blog, but I don’t think it’s worth posting—there’s just no point.

I had to discard over half of the [700+] responses because they were unusable, and beyond that, I’ve just lost interest in the site. What would the results even prove? Everything I found is obvious if you spend 10 seconds browsing the top blogs. Most users are kids, most are students, most are in North America, and most are inactive. Once I saw those results—especially the inactivity—I realized there wasn’t much reason to bother. This just leads me into my larger point:

There’s no variety anymore.

It’s just the same copy-paste posers claiming they want to "experience the old internet!!" but treating this site like any other social media platform.

Endless complaints about politics or whatever the latest outrage is.

I just want to see something interesting in the top blogs for once, but instead, it’s the same tired rants about Trump for the eighteenth time. He’s president—move on already, holy shit.

I’m not even right-leaning, I’m just exhausted by how this site has been overrun by the tankie crowd. Back when I posted more political content, things were fine, but about three months ago—right when Trump was sworn in—I started getting harassed in my DMs. Thus, I stopped posting. 

[If you guys wanna see them un-privated I'll do it lol]

I miss being able to have real conversations with people, but when one of the top blogs is "I prefer anime boys over real men," it’s just impossible.

And don’t even get me started on the half-baked “cancellations” people try to pull on this site—for what? Saying a mean word on Discord? Being a little rude in a comment section? Give me a break. You are not that important.

Then there’s the rampant inactivity. If I send you a friend request and you accept it, that means I actually want to interact with you. And don’t give me that “they might be shy” bullshit—I have a warning on my profile for that.

But instead, people log on once or twice and then disappear. Or if they do log on, they completely ignore the bulletins page. And when they do use the bulletins, half the time it’s just for venting and complaining, which gets annoying as hell. No one actually reads profiles or DNIs anymore.

I get the irony of me complaining about complaining—this whole blog is basically just that. But I feel like it needs to be said because this stuff is making SpaceHey practically unusable for normal, well-adjusted people. If you're chronically online, though? It’s perfect!



This site has turned into a mess, and I’m so done with it.






[Edit: I'm actually crying right after I posted this someone posted a pedophile sympathy blog. This site is so cooked]


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diseased hawk tuah freak shart warrior

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sorry little buddy people don't have to make sure their posts personally interest you you histrionic mental patient. anyways i'm jerking off to this post and it's all over the fucking screen. hope you like it.


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Themicearehere

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YOU GET IT


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Jamz 💋

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I have only been here for about a month, but since this site has no algorithm, I really have to search for the things I like, which I don't mind. I follow a lot of artists and people who have different interests, so my bulletin feed is always interesting.

Also you're complaining about people using Bulletins for "venting and complaining", but like what do you expect? On Twitter, people would vent and complain all the time, right? If that's not the type of content you want to see stop following them.

Be the change you want to see. But to be fair, I have only been here about a month and have been active every day.

I think you should post the blog because you spent time and energy on it. It could spark a conversation. Who knows 🤷🏽‍♀️


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This!!

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Steph

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Honestly, your reasons are why i'm not so active. Like yea, i am complaining most of the time, because i kinda use this as a safe way to express my feelings, but i've scrolled through this page and i've already found 5 "cancellation" attempts. The comments are also extremely exaggerated sometimes. I like to post about different things, but it just gets overlooked


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Oka

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To me it still a great place to be
Like ok not everything is fine here but its not new
As example when there were gorespamers
And for real i dont see much of shity post
They are many artist here, some french and many spanish speakers
If you dont search for drama there arent any


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lia.X

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I’ve Joined recently But i feel like all you said is True like there’s not much interesting things idk i just do this for fun!!


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