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Guys can we stop and look at ourselves for a minute.

*this is old. Ā The drama has been resolved, so please refrain from commenting or adding kudos to this pleasešŸ’š

if you would like, you may still read this blog and its comment section. The only reason I am keeping this up is for documentation in the future that SpaceHey is not all fun and blah blah.


please consider reading this blog made by rosesofblood; they explain this much better than my blog.


https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1215319



What has this site become.


To get to the top of blogs, you either have to be dropping som big spacehey lore shit or make rage bait titles. Or beg people for kudos to a point where itā€™s fucking annoying.

This isnā€™t what spacehey was made for. This isnā€™t what BLOGS were made for.

What happened to the spacehey I joined 8 months ago where you could blog about something silly or lighthearted and find people with a similar interest as you?

What happened to having poetry posts that even just got 20 kudos on the front page? What happened to people just being creative or rambling about things they like and having meaningful conversations with people over things they have in common?


Now itā€™s just a big fight between ā€œReALā€ old web users and the ā€œsensitive new gen kidsā€.

Shut up. Shut up, shut up, shut up.Ā 

SO MANY PEOPLE ARE LEAVING BC THIS IS LITERALLY TURNING INTO A TWITTERISH HELLHOLE.

thereā€™s new drama every day. theres people doxxing people. theres neonazis, thereā€™s people sending gore and pornography to people in IMs. And they all just say ā€œwell youā€™re too sensitive!!ā€Ā 


No. People arenā€™t too sensitive. And itā€™s completely ok for them to express their shock or distaste for that media.

It doesnā€™t make you cool to be ā€œedgyā€ and ā€œdeal with itā€. Not everyone is such a big edgelord as you.Ā 

And if youā€™re the one sending it, tbh youā€™re not helping the site go back to ā€œold webā€.

Youā€™re making it worse and causing more people to get shocked and continue posting that shit. Itā€™s a vicious circle.


Or, other people fall for obvious ragebait, further boosting negative posts to the top of blogs.

You arenā€™t helping either. If you want them to stop, if you want the drama to end and for people to just leave you alone, stop interacting with ragebait blogs.

I get that most of you are young children who act on impulse when you see something that upsets you here. But honestly, I donā€™t know how to put this in other words, but you have to face it, swallow it, block, and move on.


Everyoneā€™s said it, and itā€™s true. Donā€™t feed trolls. If you donā€™t feed them, theyā€™ll be less inclined to post, and if you block, then they wonā€™t bug you.Ā 


Also, instead of using blogs to complain or post call-outs, do that in bulletins instead. Blogs are for your INTERESTS. Thereā€™s TONS of blog categories there for a reason. And none of those categories include ā€œdramaā€ or ā€œragebaitā€.



This is the downfall of this website and honestly, I donā€™t know what will save it.

If you donā€™t like someone or something,Ā FUCKING BLOCK THEM. AND MOVE. ON. ITS GENUINELY NOT THAT HARD.

THE BLOCK BUTTON EXISTS FOR A FUCKING REASON.


Ā THIS IS FOR BOTH SIDES OF THE ARGUMENT. FOR BOTH KIDS AND ADULTS. Just. Block. them. šŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤Æ problem solved!Ā 

No need to make a bigass blog about it. At most, just make a bulletin or a PRIVATE, LINK ONLY BLOG THAT DOESNT SHOW UP ON THE BLOG PAGE!

If youā€™ve had enough of someone, block them.Ā 

If thereā€™s gore in their profile, block them and report them. Said something mean to you? Block them. Groomed you? Block and report them and make a post to your friends.

Is ā€œcringeā€ to you? Block them. Is ā€œfaking mental disordersā€? Block them. Is ā€œtoo sensitiveā€ for you? Block them. No need to point and laugh at a kid whos trying to navigate the internet in one of the mustiest corners of the web.

Just block them.

Itā€™s not that hard.



also, take a look at this because many of you guys need a refresh on things you should know about internet safety.

https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1136820

Giant blog full of unsaid spacehey rules and tips.

For context, the blog was published 3 months ago. It CANNOTĀ make it to top blogs, so itā€™s just been circulating around my friends list.


Some food for thought.

If 250 people had the time to read it, so can you, and hopefully you can glean some useful information out of it.


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bimcon

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Ive been here since October of 2022 and has kinda always been this way. Probably a bit worse now with all the more gore but not by much


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neo

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Blocking works and I agree that ppl should just block but those stupid ass spammers who make like 10 accounts during a stupid ass drama are hard to block and really be testing me


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lem.iso

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idk what ur yapping about because 8 months ago spacehey was still just a cesspit. it was a cesspit even 2 years ago when i joined! just pick your circles wisely and ignore whatever's at the top of the blog page. drama will always get more attention than positive stuff


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this tbh , when i first joined about 3/4 years ago it was a little more tame but people described in this post still existed to a significant degree

thats just the modern internet for you

fuck people were just as hostile as this on myspace, nothing new

by zyozi; ; Report

im saying!

by lem.iso; ; Report

HELL

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I signed up here because I thought this site would be very good for my chatty personality, I like to chat about everything..And I was told that many people here like to raise all sorts of topics, but when I saw that most blogs were filled with "dramas", the desire fell..I just recently returned here again, honestly, I hope people will come to their senses soon and no one will care about trolls (I'm a pretty sensitive person ":(. )


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u seem so sweet!! i also signed up in hopes that i would be able to talk to people :((

by nana! .°. Żā‚Š š™š . Ż āŗā‚Š; ; Report

Thank you! |ļ½„Ļ‰ļ½„)"You look very cute too, let's look for new acquaintances together hahaha

by HELL; ; Report

SAME i just wanted to ramble about random stuff and then i find some weird shit like????

by shinyjewelz; ; Report

omg another rambler ^o^ nice to meet you! I joined this site recently because ive gotten tired over the giant stupid social media apps and wanted a more chill spot, I guess thatll never exist but its nice that people are wanting to do something about it :D

by Alt!; ; Report

hiii yes!! nice to meet u too :3

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Hats 9999

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Yeah, Iā€™m kinda surprised that people donā€™t use the block button more. I mean, Iā€™ve only recently started using it, but still, I currently have 76 people blocked on here.
(To be fair, most of them are accounts from businesses, but a few are actually people I just donā€™t like/donā€™t agree with some beliefs of)


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ā›°ļøšŸŒ EsmešŸŒ¾

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I do not have any knowledge of what this is in response to, yet you are saying what is beneficial to everyone in general regardless if they are educated on this or not.
Good blog! You definitely get two kudos from me.


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J

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Spacehey lore is insane


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for real

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newtyp

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Stop whining man, you are just adding to it


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LITERALLY

by YOUR_lady_of_sorrows; ; Report

FRAN[KIE]

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poetry 4tw save us poetryyy


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CasperPrime

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spacehey lore exposition


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Retr0

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coming back to this website after not being on here for a bit and seeing it in shambles is crazy


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rikki āœ®ā‹†Ė™

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THANK YOU!! someone finally said it omfg


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Elliot_Oliver

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I have used this site for about a year, constantly switching accounts to make a new profile. I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT ALL THIS DRAMA, LIKE WHAAAT??


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Anon3469

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i fucking LOVE blocking people omg


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love this lol

by R0yaL_BluExzcx; ; Report

inferno !! āŠ¹Ė³ĖšāŸ”

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i agree besides the grooming thing. i think we should put the damn groomers on blast and make sure their reputation is ruined


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yeah honestly

by shinyjewelz; ; Report

_freaxx_

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if they want their old gory web back, they can go to some dumb underground shock website and not here.


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Rosesofblood

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While people are allowed to express their discomfort in viewing gore and innapropriate content shown to them without consent, the block and report button exists! Theres the ability to send in screenshots aswell. USE CATBOX, ABUSE THE BLOCK button. I'm not saying it's sensitive that people are adverse to gore, but it IS sensitive to complain whilst not doing anything to report it.

Also this blog is formatted horribly it feels so rushed if you're trying to be one of those "good-hearted top blog posters"


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This was pretty rushed bc as of right now Iā€™m really busy and donā€™t rly have the time to write out a giant thought out thing. So Iā€™m sorry if I come off as a goody two shoes in this blog.


and my remark about how blocking is so easy in this blog itself ISNT just for the people mad at people complaining, but for the kids themselves, hence,

>ā€ THIS IS FOR BOTH ā€œrEaL oLD WeBā€ users and kids. Just. Block. them.ā€

If ANYONE, regardless of who they are is fed up w someone, Iā€™m saying that they should just block and move on. Not just the old web ppl.

Hopefully this clears some stuff up. Sorry for the misconception

by xeviant (on break); ; Report

no you're good. I think this whole situation on spacehey has turned into a divided community. Currently writing a blog about the effects of JFS blog, as she basically pioneered this discussion

by Rosesofblood; ; Report

Yeah;

JFS had some valid points in her blog tbh, but most of it was worded quite awfully imo. If u post the blog pls send the link bc Iā€™d gladly read it šŸ™šŸ’š

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Marin or Gray šŸŸ

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Love this blog and agree with everything you said, I had to unfriend a mutual of mine who made a whole bulletin basically expressing his support to some weirdo who victim blamed underage harassment victims and calling the said abuse of minors "old internet culture" or whatever and mind you the mutual in question was 30 something like be very fr with me rn!


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marlow ā›„āƒ

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commenting to boost this post!! (idk if that necessarily helps since the spacehey algorithm is weird) people need to read this tbh, the blogs section is so weirdly toxic :/


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yeah the commenting boosts! not even kudos..weird i know

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xeviant (on break)

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100 kudos in not even 24h?

This is a record for me tbh


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