*this is old. Ā The drama has been resolved, so please refrain from commenting or adding kudos to this pleaseš
if you would like, you may still read this blog and its comment section. The only reason I am keeping this up is for documentation in the future that SpaceHey is not all fun and blah blah.
please consider reading this blog made by rosesofblood; they explain this much better than my blog.
https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1215319
What has this site become.
To get to the top of blogs, you either have to be dropping som big spacehey lore shit or make rage bait titles. Or beg people for kudos to a point where itās fucking annoying.
This isnāt what spacehey was made for. This isnāt what BLOGS were made for.
What happened to the spacehey I joined 8 months ago where you could blog about something silly or lighthearted and find people with a similar interest as you?
What happened to having poetry posts that even just got 20 kudos on the front page? What happened to people just being creative or rambling about things they like and having meaningful conversations with people over things they have in common?
Now itās just a big fight between āReALā old web users and the āsensitive new gen kidsā.
Shut up. Shut up, shut up, shut up.Ā
SO MANY PEOPLE ARE LEAVING BC THIS IS LITERALLY TURNING INTO A TWITTERISH HELLHOLE.
thereās new drama every day. theres people doxxing people. theres neonazis, thereās people sending gore and pornography to people in IMs. And they all just say āwell youāre too sensitive!!āĀ
No. People arenāt too sensitive. And itās completely ok for them to express their shock or distaste for that media.
It doesnāt make you cool to be āedgyā and ādeal with itā. Not everyone is such a big edgelord as you.Ā
And if youāre the one sending it, tbh youāre not helping the site go back to āold webā.
Youāre making it worse and causing more people to get shocked and continue posting that shit. Itās a vicious circle.
Or, other people fall for obvious ragebait, further boosting negative posts to the top of blogs.
You arenāt helping either. If you want them to stop, if you want the drama to end and for people to just leave you alone, stop interacting with ragebait blogs.
I get that most of you are young children who act on impulse when you see something that upsets you here. But honestly, I donāt know how to put this in other words, but you have to face it, swallow it, block, and move on.
Everyoneās said it, and itās true. Donāt feed trolls. If you donāt feed them, theyāll be less inclined to post, and if you block, then they wonāt bug you.Ā
Also, instead of using blogs to complain or post call-outs, do that in bulletins instead. Blogs are for your INTERESTS. Thereās TONS of blog categories there for a reason. And none of those categories include ādramaā or āragebaitā.
This is the downfall of this website and honestly, I donāt know what will save it.
If you donāt like someone or something,Ā FUCKING BLOCK THEM. AND MOVE. ON. ITS GENUINELY NOT THAT HARD.
THE BLOCK BUTTON EXISTS FOR A FUCKING REASON.
Ā THIS IS FOR BOTH SIDES OF THE ARGUMENT. FOR BOTH KIDS AND ADULTS. Just. Block. them. š¤Æš¤Æš¤Æš¤Æš¤Æš¤Æš¤Æš¤Æ problem solved!Ā
No need to make a bigass blog about it. At most, just make a bulletin or a PRIVATE, LINK ONLY BLOG THAT DOESNT SHOW UP ON THE BLOG PAGE!
If youāve had enough of someone, block them.Ā
If thereās gore in their profile, block them and report them. Said something mean to you? Block them. Groomed you? Block and report them and make a post to your friends.
Is ācringeā to you? Block them. Is āfaking mental disordersā? Block them. Is ātoo sensitiveā for you? Block them. No need to point and laugh at a kid whos trying to navigate the internet in one of the mustiest corners of the web.
Just block them.
Itās not that hard.
also, take a look at this because many of you guys need a refresh on things you should know about internet safety.
https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1136820
Giant blog full of unsaid spacehey rules and tips.
For context, the blog was published 3 months ago. It CANNOTĀ make it to top blogs, so itās just been circulating around my friends list.
Some food for thought.
If 250 people had the time to read it, so can you, and hopefully you can glean some useful information out of it.
Comments
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bimcon
Ive been here since October of 2022 and has kinda always been this way. Probably a bit worse now with all the more gore but not by much
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neo
Blocking works and I agree that ppl should just block but those stupid ass spammers who make like 10 accounts during a stupid ass drama are hard to block and really be testing me
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lem.iso
idk what ur yapping about because 8 months ago spacehey was still just a cesspit. it was a cesspit even 2 years ago when i joined! just pick your circles wisely and ignore whatever's at the top of the blog page. drama will always get more attention than positive stuff
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this tbh , when i first joined about 3/4 years ago it was a little more tame but people described in this post still existed to a significant degree
thats just the modern internet for you
fuck people were just as hostile as this on myspace, nothing new
by zyozi; ; Report
im saying!
by lem.iso; ; Report
HELL
I signed up here because I thought this site would be very good for my chatty personality, I like to chat about everything..And I was told that many people here like to raise all sorts of topics, but when I saw that most blogs were filled with "dramas", the desire fell..I just recently returned here again, honestly, I hope people will come to their senses soon and no one will care about trolls (I'm a pretty sensitive person ":(. )
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u seem so sweet!! i also signed up in hopes that i would be able to talk to people :((
by nana! .°. Żā š . Ż āŗā; ; Report
Thank you! |ļ½„Ļļ½„)"You look very cute too, let's look for new acquaintances together hahaha
by HELL; ; Report
SAME i just wanted to ramble about random stuff and then i find some weird shit like????
by shinyjewelz; ; Report
omg another rambler ^o^ nice to meet you! I joined this site recently because ive gotten tired over the giant stupid social media apps and wanted a more chill spot, I guess thatll never exist but its nice that people are wanting to do something about it :D
by Alt!; ; Report
hiii yes!! nice to meet u too :3
by shinyjewelz; ; Report
Hats 9999
Yeah, Iām kinda surprised that people donāt use the block button more. I mean, Iāve only recently started using it, but still, I currently have 76 people blocked on here.
(To be fair, most of them are accounts from businesses, but a few are actually people I just donāt like/donāt agree with some beliefs of)
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ā°ļøš Esmeš¾
I do not have any knowledge of what this is in response to, yet you are saying what is beneficial to everyone in general regardless if they are educated on this or not.
Good blog! You definitely get two kudos from me.
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J
Spacehey lore is insane
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for real
by Rei!; ; Report
newtyp
Stop whining man, you are just adding to it
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LITERALLY
by YOUR_lady_of_sorrows; ; Report
FRAN[KIE]
poetry 4tw save us poetryyy
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CasperPrime
spacehey lore exposition
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Retr0
coming back to this website after not being on here for a bit and seeing it in shambles is crazy
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Fr
by Totalelliotš; ; Report
rikki ā®āĖ
THANK YOU!! someone finally said it omfg
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Elliot_Oliver
I have used this site for about a year, constantly switching accounts to make a new profile. I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT ALL THIS DRAMA, LIKE WHAAAT??
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Anon3469
i fucking LOVE blocking people omg
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love this lol
by R0yaL_BluExzcx; ; Report
inferno !! ā¹Ė³Ėā”
i agree besides the grooming thing. i think we should put the damn groomers on blast and make sure their reputation is ruined
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yeah honestly
by shinyjewelz; ; Report
_freaxx_
if they want their old gory web back, they can go to some dumb underground shock website and not here.
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Rosesofblood
While people are allowed to express their discomfort in viewing gore and innapropriate content shown to them without consent, the block and report button exists! Theres the ability to send in screenshots aswell. USE CATBOX, ABUSE THE BLOCK button. I'm not saying it's sensitive that people are adverse to gore, but it IS sensitive to complain whilst not doing anything to report it.
Also this blog is formatted horribly it feels so rushed if you're trying to be one of those "good-hearted top blog posters"
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This was pretty rushed bc as of right now Iām really busy and donāt rly have the time to write out a giant thought out thing. So Iām sorry if I come off as a goody two shoes in this blog.
and my remark about how blocking is so easy in this blog itself ISNT just for the people mad at people complaining, but for the kids themselves, hence,
>ā THIS IS FOR BOTH ārEaL oLD WeBā users and kids. Just. Block. them.ā
If ANYONE, regardless of who they are is fed up w someone, Iām saying that they should just block and move on. Not just the old web ppl.
Hopefully this clears some stuff up. Sorry for the misconception
by xeviant (on break); ; Report
no you're good. I think this whole situation on spacehey has turned into a divided community. Currently writing a blog about the effects of JFS blog, as she basically pioneered this discussion
by Rosesofblood; ; Report
Yeah;
JFS had some valid points in her blog tbh, but most of it was worded quite awfully imo. If u post the blog pls send the link bc Iād gladly read it šš
by xeviant (on break); ; Report
Marin or Gray š
Love this blog and agree with everything you said, I had to unfriend a mutual of mine who made a whole bulletin basically expressing his support to some weirdo who victim blamed underage harassment victims and calling the said abuse of minors "old internet culture" or whatever and mind you the mutual in question was 30 something like be very fr with me rn!
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marlow ā„ā
commenting to boost this post!! (idk if that necessarily helps since the spacehey algorithm is weird) people need to read this tbh, the blogs section is so weirdly toxic :/
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yeah the commenting boosts! not even kudos..weird i know
by Rusty; ; Report
xeviant (on break)
100 kudos in not even 24h?
This is a record for me tbh
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