my mother died in may. my main way of coping has been music. mostly 90s rock and grunge, what she listened to at my age. trying to connect with her, hold onto her any way i can. but i've also been getting into goth music. i've always admired goth culture & fashion. loving, LOVING bauhaus. thinking of going to goth events! i will see.... » Continue Reading
for context, i've identified as a gay transgender man for about 5 years now. recently, i've started being attracted to trans women. i'm worried about if i'm fetishizing transgender women, not viewing them as women, etc. but another part of me is like. BUDDY. you might be a weird bisexual (attracted to nb, men, and trans women) (i include trans men w/ men). but idk @_@ i kind of have a lot going on... » Continue Reading