Love

ok so recently ive felt really sad because my bf is super busy. and honestly ive been kind of overriding him with questions askinf for reassurance and today i asked him if its been overwhelming him and he said yea and i expected that. And then we both said i need to stop depending on him for my happiness.

So im gonna try doing that. we almost kind of broke up. and i sometimes feel like if we break up it will be better but i dont want to and neither of us want to. i kind of think taking a break would be ok and i know neither of us would go cheating so. I think i need a therapist.

I still enjoy him a lot and he enjoys me too. And it sometimes makes me feel bad that he has fun with other friends but i know its ok if he does. 

Does anyone have advice for finding other things to be happy with since im trying to not be dependant on my bf for my happiness?