"cara" trasfóbach

transphobic “friend” 

🇮🇪 • Mar sin, bhí an "cara" seo agam sa tríú huair agus choinnigh sí uirthi ag baint inscne mícheart as mo phearsa agus ag baint ainmneacha míchearta as daoine trasinscneacha eile agus a n-ainm agus a bhforainmneacha ar eolas aici agus is cosúil nár chuir sí aon iarracht isteach gan a bheith trasfóbach mar cheartóinn í agus ní dhéarfadh sí leithscéal ach dá mba rud é go raibh inscne mícheart aici agus ansin ní cheartódh sí í féin agus leanfadh sí ar aghaidh ag baint inscne mícheart as mo phearsa soicindí ina dhiaidh sin, nó ní dhéanann sí neamhaird orm nuair a cheartaím í ar ainmneacha agus forainmneacha daoine trasinscneacha eile amhail is nár dhúirt mé tada riamh, mar sin chuir mé aghaidh uirthi cúpla lá ó shin agus bhí mé deas i mo thuairimse faoi, agus is féidir le mo fhíorchara aontú liom go raibh mé deas faoi, ach ar aon nós, d'fhreagair sí ar bhealach thar a bheith míchuí agus neamhaibí, choinnigh sí uirthi ag rá liom "dún mo bhéal" agus "fág í ina haonar" agus dúirt sí liom fiú mura ndéanfainn gnéas léi agus mura bhfágfainn í ina haonar go gcuirfeadh sí bac orm agus go scoirfeadh sí de bheith i mo chara, mar sin um. Nílimid inár gcairde a thuilleadh agus chuir sí bac orm/bain sí bac orm, mar sin, táim beagáinín neirbhíseach faoi cad a tharlóidh le linn an ranga amárach; cuirfidh mé an nuacht is déanaí agaibh.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 • so I had this “friend” in 3rd hour and she kept misgendering me and she’d misgender and deadname other trans people while knowing their name and pronouns they go by and it overall seemed like she didn’t put in any effort to not be transphobic cause I’d correct her and she’d only say sorry if she misgendered me then she wouldn’t correct herself and go on to misgender me seconds after, or she’s just ignore me when I correct her on other trans peoples names & pronouns as if I never said anything, so I confronted her a few days ago and was nice imo about it, and my real friend can agree with me that I was nice about it, but anyways she reacted in an insanely inappropriate and immature way, she kept telling me to “shut the fuck up” and “leave her alone” and she even told me if I don’t sftu and leave her alone she will block me and stop being my friend, so uh. We aren’t friends anymore and she unadded/blocked me, so uh yeah, kind of nervous to see what will happen during class tomorrow; will update you guys