No, i don't want pancakes, leave me the fuck alone

bro so my dad just woke me up at fucking 5-6 in the fucking morning to tell me that we were having pancakes at the fire department in my area cause my mom really wanted to go apparently, and I kept trying to ask about it because I genuinely wasn't told about this at any moment prior and never have I been gaslighted so hard in my entire life because he's literally been acting like I'm some stupid fuck who drank too much (even tho he drinks alcohol himself) and basically telling me "I told you on *insert time I had never heard him even mention anything related to pancakes or the event*" and you know what david? fuck you and those greasy dollar store pancakes, I wasn't told about this.