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so uhh me and my boyfriend are still together surprise ig woooo
no but it feels so weird between us two lately, not like a shy or nervous behavior but more like an oncomfortable behavior
idk man this is just so stupid, maybe im just getting into a depressed state again
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Clerical Heretic
I hope you don't mind me snooping, but if his distance is making you upset and uncomfortable, then it may be time to move on. You need to weight the pain with the benefit, and if he's already almost not there, then you're only hurting yourself.
Bear in mind I'm a voice on the internet, so it's your choice whether or not you take my advice. Either way, wish you (both?) the best!
no worries man, im just glad ppl out here are trying to help
i've been considering talking to him about it again tonight and trying to see whats best for us both, the thing is i want him to be happy as well and not just staying with me bc i want him to stay. his happiness is more important to me than everything else
by R0x_Cr0cs; ; Report
I get that, but also understand that it takes two to form a relationship. If you're not both trying to make it work, then it's parasitic. It might hurt, but consider whether or not you're getting what you want from the relationship.
Definitely talk to him about it though, but if it isn't working it isn't working
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yea so we're slowly beginning to talk a bit more with each other so thats a bit of improvement, but who knows that could only last for a few days
tomorrow is most likely the last day i see him bc of summer vacation so i really wanna try and talk to him about it again
thanks man, im really considering whats best right now for my mental health
by R0x_Cr0cs; ; Report
It's good that you're talking through things, and I hope that means things are gonna work out. Either way, its good that your working on yourself too. I'm rooting for you!
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Thanks man, really appreciate this all from ya and i hope you'll live a peaceful life
by R0x_Cr0cs; ; Report
I wish the same to you! Lemme know how it goes!
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