"Imagine"
"Seduction"
"It's a lost art I tell you"
"It's all pity me and no affection, it's really pathetic and off-putting."
"Like please tell me some stupidly bad pick up line, I'll laugh, please stop talking about your ex who left, I'm going to be wondering why and figure out fast."
"I just make friends and they catch feelings. Tragic really."
"You lead and you engage. You're more of a well-rounded individual than people could dream to be. And you don't rely on others. If not attractive, it's enviable."
"Homie I'm sitting here-"
"Stupid, I'm not talking about now specifically, this is my take away from the two years I've known you, at least what I perceive. Even If it's not true at least take the compliment my dude. I think highly of you."
"I think highly of you too. Your awkward ass, you got that quirky rizz."
"Damn right, I appreciate ya, thanks for that."
"No problem."
[I hopelessly try to talk to men on dating apps, and usually am disappointed or terribly confused, it feels they don't understand how some of the things they say can deter people. A man told me "I want that moment 3 years in before 4 or 5 years where she snaps and leaves" and explained that his ex left him. You shouldn't base your future endeavors on something like that, you're basically bringing instability or anticipation of instability to the table and that's really off-putting. Practically setting up for disaster if you're already talking about the end of the relationship that hasn't even happened, my good sir- we are not even friends yet. The conversation grew quickly more of an effort than an experience and I made myself clear that it was and I was no longer feeling interested.]
"Damn... you're cold" he said.
"No. I just don't waste people's time."Β
[I don't want to lead people on, for my sake and theirs, I will be blunt, I don't care if I come across as rude. After that... interesting interaction, I went to go tell my complicated friendship about it.]
-Sentient
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