about depression

I don't have the ability to understand people who romanticize depression, it's a horrible disease, I can't stand taking medication every day. People are like "oh I can help you when you're sad, you can count on me" but the part where we can't shower, brush our teeth and among other trivial everyday things, they say it's laziness and they think it's disgusting, I DON'T GO 3 DAYS WITHOUT TAKING A SHOWER BECAUSE I'M LAZY I'm just so depressed that I can't do anything, anyway it was just an outburst that I'd like to share.