my mom

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months right now. And my mom after around the first month pulled me aside to talk to me about it. For a little back story me and my boyfriend (I know I'm gonna get hate for this) met while I was impatient. So me and him started dating and I told my mom while I was in the institution. She told me that I didn't want to know how she felt about the dating. So while we were impatient, we ended up trading phone numbers. Hid them in our pants and just on our bodies, so the staff couldn't find them. But the day comes that he's getting discharged and lucky me, we both got out on the same day just different times. So when I got out, which was after him, we had texted and things went on from there. Around a month later, she tells me to come in her room and talk to her, mind you at the time, I was on the phone with my bf. So I go in her room and we start talking and she tells me that she thinks that I need to break up with him and that she doesn't think it's good for either one of us. She also told me that she was going to get another adult that I don't really like involved. The other adult is like my father figure and me and him haven't been getting along. So I start panicking and tell her no and not to. She then told me if it wasn't needed that I would go back to my room, hang up, block him and delete his number. Instantly I start freaking out and trying to talk her out of it, she doesn't listen. I told her I would and went back to my room. I hung up and texted him everything that had happened. We both had come to the conclusion that we would be texting but just having him under another name and not calling as much. That lasts around 2 weeks and then after that, my mom randomly comes into my room, when she came in she told me to hand her my phone. Of course it had to be whenever I had our texts pulled up and was texting him. So I start freaking out and trying to close everything the second she sees it. I gave it to her and she walked away. I started following her around and trying to figure out what she was looking for. She kept telling me to back the fuck up and to go back to my room before something bad happens. I walked back and forth between her and my room begging her to let me stand there and watch what she does, she kept telling me no. When she finished looking at my call logs, she said "there" and gave me my phone back. She told me that me and my father figure would be having a talk about the way I reacted, because I'm not 18 and privacy is a luxury. I told her that I was fine with that and that I understood. She then asked me what I was hiding because nobody would be shaken up for no reason. And before I was even able to say p0rn, she said that she knows it's not p0rn and to not even try and tell her that. I calmed down and told her that I was still talking to my bf on the side. She gave me a fist bump and told me that she had already told me to block him. I told her that I was sorry and started begging her to let me explain. She told me no and then told me that no matter what he is being blocked and deleted. I blocked him in front of her and blocked him on everything that she knew he was on. I went back to my room, texted my bf and explained what happened. In the middle of me doing that my mom came back there and told me that I was grounded from my phone for a week. Now I'm here, texting him on my chromebook and deleting our chats. This shit has been goofy.

Signing off,

LuckyStarShooter