i love when mum talks at me

Because I live in a different country for university, I facetime with my mum every evening.

So often I feel like she talks AT me, instead of having an actual conversation WITH me.

It becomes especially annoying whenever I reply to something she says, or reply to a question she's asked me, and she ignores/doesn't hear what I said??  She's always done that, although I never noticed until recently. My brother on the other hand has been saying for years that she often doesn't listen to when he speaks.

AND sometimes she literally speaks over me/cuts me off when I say something.

I don't know. I don't think she does it on purpose tbh.

I think her brain just works that way and she's always more or less in her own world.

It's so frustrating, sometimes I cut her off because otherwise it'll only be her talking. Or, I just browse some website on my laptop while facetiming her (I'm writing this while facetiming her).

I don't know if this means anything, but for the previous year I've been wondering if I'm autistic, and from what I understand, autism can run in a family?