love just enough.

when finding the right person, friend or relationship, ask yourself what you like about them. ask yourself what you don't like. do you think if your family was the same, you could accept it forever? if not then they probably aren't for you. i know how it feels to get caught up in love and think you can put up with anything forever. living this way isn't fun. being on the edge of your seat, waiting to lose someone who isn't gone, isn't healthy. you shouldn't have so much fear and worry with someone you love. do not let yourself love too much to make up for a problem you can not fix in a 5 minute conversation. if you have to beg for attention from them, it isn't worth the time and pain. do not make yourself uncomfortable because someone else wants to be. if you have to fight to deaths end, if you have to plead and beg, leave. do not allow someone to make you feel like you have to stay in order for them to be alive or thrive. if they do not care about you with the same amount of love and care that you do then quit exhausting yourself for their attention. love them enough to be themselves and if its not enough then you aren't the problem.