Interesting Paradigm

In this Earth life, we all wear a veil of illusion :( so just think of this life as a gory VR torture device. But also realize that you're on a stage. Your whole spirit family sees you and, more importantly, they help you. They have transitioned to a far more peaceful (and powerful) existence, from which they actually spend a great deal of their time helping you. And we all eventually join them in their mission, once we are done experiencing Earth stuff.