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Why are feelings so hard? I still have a major crush on him but now I am with someone else I like them too but I feel terrible for it. My s/o knows about my crush towards them and they are fine with it but I still do not feel right. I wish I could hate him but I can't my feelings still linger no matter how much I try to forget them. I like my partner so much and I am happy with them but feeling so strong are hard to get rid of! My partner is so understanding though and I appreciate them so much for it. I want this guy out of my head already, I want to be 100% happy with my partner without thinking of him! I am head over hills for my partner they make me feel like I am special. They are there for me all the time. So why does my heart want someone with mixed signals who doesnt even bat an eye for me!!
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pionoplayer
Because sometimes our hearts and hormones aren't very good at making those decisions on their own. When I experienced similar difficulties I learned to guide my thoughts away from that avenue to something else. If you stay firm in keeping yourself away from that unwanted internal romantic interest, eventually your subconscious gets the message and eases off a bit though it unfortunately is not a quick process.
Good luck, I hope your relationship goes well and that you're able to get this issue to where it stops making you uncomfortable.
Thank you so much I appreciate the feedback the feelings are already receding and I am focusing mostly on my school, work and s/o. Hope you have a wonderful week<3
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I'm glad it helped! I hope your week goes well too.
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