Growing up ugly

Sometimes I sit and think about, how growing up "ugly" as a girl and not being able to make friends/form proper relationships  is a direct pipeline to getting groomed by older men. Because your adolescent brain craves to be accepted so bad, that you're unknowingly getting into bad situations like that. Because we as humans have an innate instinct to be social creatures, and being deprived from “normal” attention leads you to seek it elsewhere. So therefore gross predators will take advantage of that desire to be included, and turn it into something much more worse.  &  it constantly shapes the way you form connections and relationships in the future.