The Penis Post

Today, I wasn't entirely sure what to even write about. So I asked my friends. My good friend Jordan suggested, jokingly, that I write about dicks. Of course I thought, har har... but then he jokingly suggested that I write about the top five dicks I've ever had. I figured, you know what? I'm going to talk about it, somewhat. I'm going to talk about mostly why I don't care much about someone's size. I'm going to cover why a random dick-pick is not a turn on for me, and... yes, of course, this is going to have some 'hurrr it's 'cause I'm demisexual' -- well of course. That's reason number one.

Reason number to as to why penis size does not matter to me... is because I enjoy the company of women as well. Cisgender women don't have penises... so I don't care about it. I simply like the exchange of orgasm... if the genitals are functional and can experience and/or give an orgasm... then the genitals are some that I will gladly have fun with should all my other stipulations be met.

Simply.

I've been with rather small members... and it's not as bad as people make it out to be. Some people are self-proclaimed whores and sluts... but let's be real here, no shame, but you're not a real slut if you don't just simply like orgasms. You're not a sexpert, you're not a fetish artist, you're not a grade-A prostitute... you're a size-queen and that means you're limited.

I am not limited in where and how I can give and get orgasms. I do not care about the size of one's genitals because the genitals are not what cares about my stressful day. It's safe to say that I've got a few reasons as to why size down-there doesn't matter to me. The main reason is... it just doesn't matter. There's no point in obsessing about size. Does the penis-weilder have the ability to consent and orgasm? Awesome... we can work with that. That's genuinely all you need.

I understand that most men want to feel powerful or like they have the mightiest hammer that not even Thor can lift, but the reality is, it's my body that it's going into or my psyche that's being used for a sexual service... I'm going to take my time and really plan out how to enjoy it with you. That's the point of orgasm - to stimulate the nerves enough to, well... you know what an orgasm is.

My major point is... just because I don't care about dick size, doesn't mean I don't care about the activities that I'm doing with the member. How I handle it and how it handles me is all I need to worry about when it comes to the sexual aspect of any of my relationships. Of course, what's a sexual blog post without me reminding the reader for the fiftieth time that I am demisexual!

Demisexual to me means that I typically won't exchange sexual energy with someone that I do not have an emotional click with... for free. My consent comes with a price, that's what makes me a sexworker, but even in sexwork, I've run into some different sizes and shapes. I've never favored one size over another. It's always been about the people attached to them.

I'm queen-sized... not a size queen.