I started this sometime around twenty-something years old. I refined my skill enough to begin writing dirty stories and that business took off for a short while. I gained and lost customers over the years and even gained some lifelong friends and returning loyal customers. For a while... I really enjoyed it. I enjoyed my work being respected and I enjoyed learning about new kinks and fetishes... none of which I shame, because it's pointless.
If you don't like something, don't do it and simply avoid it. I write Safe For Work things, too, and anyone is free to order non-pornographic content. As it stands, the way I write "smut" as most call it, is far more intimate and dare I say... beautiful? I can call it beautiful. Every character in my NSFW pieces might be just "fucking", but even that can be made into lovemaking.
I turn regular ol' fapping into an artform.
The problem with this "job" though, is that because my prices are so low, as seen on my website in case anyone is interested, is that it can really drape a wet towel over my real-life interest in sex as a whole. It can make the very mention of sex become really tiring. Hell, even writing this right now feels slightly like work, because I know as soon as some BBW admirer reads this, he's going to want to start asking dirty questions and coerce me to talk dirty.
Sex is something so beautiful to share with intimate parts of yourself or intimacy with another - or more - people... and everyone seems to think that because my job is all about it, that I'm obsessed with it, which is severely not the case.
Another favorite assumption is that because I write about the things that others want to read about... that I'm personally into it. Not the case. There is a major difference between not kink shaming and just not being into something. I'm veering toward more vanilla practices for myself personally.
Anyway, I suppose this is just a sad attempt at getting some business or an even sadder attempt at being more active on here... I'm really ready to call Facebook quits because of all the toxic assholes who refuse to learn how to communicate. Watching 40-somethings converse about something in a group is like watching toddlers learn to spell and gang up on "not cool kids". It's really ass-backwards and I'm frankly a bit disgusted.
It's all just stupid.
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Jon 🐇
As a frustrated writer myself I get it. I've written some erotica myself, it's fun! :D
It can be! Especially when I work for people with different interests than I. I also come to understand them better, too. XD
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