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I am currently questioning my sexuality again due to a presentation on asexuality that my schools GSA gave. I am questioning all of my past thoughts and actions lol. Looking back on things I've never really felt sexually attracted to someone. I've never wanted to have sex with a specific person. I think about how I've thought people were attractive but looking at it now it seems the way I was attracted to them was more aesthetic attraction rather than sexual. I'm very confused and I just wanted to write it all down somewhere. Any advice is welcome.
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Hatch
Heres the thing. Just use the label and see if it fits. If you change your mind later, thats fine. If you think you might be ace, call yourself ace for a while. Check out ace peoples blogs, see them talkin about it. just go for it.
If it turns out youre not ace, what happens, youll have learned stuff about other identities? Go for it
Hisui
You’re still young, you’ll figure it out. It takes a bit. And if you think you identify as one thing and realize that it’s not quite accurate, that’s ok too. It’s ok to change your mind, and it’s ok to not put a label on yourself too.
What helped me is removing labels. While I love being a part of the LGBTQ+ community, I feel like we are often too obsessed with labeling people “correctly”. Just stay true to yourself.
I definitely agree I try to stay away from microlabeling as it gets confusing for me which is why I only identify as transmasc as far as gender goes. I just want to figure out whether I'm allo or ace so that explaining things to myself and others is a bit easier. Thank you!
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