The Nature of being an interesting person

What does it mean to grab someone's attention? To get them to care about what you have to say? This question, what it means to care about someone and get them to care about you, has been a recurring theme in my life as of lately. I know that there is no, there could be no exact answer but I don't know. It's so simple yet complex? I've been giving it more though lately and it's crazy. I think we all have a interesting and worthwhile story to tell so then would it just be the delivery? How you tell a story or preach your personal philosophy. I'm not sure. I want to get my thoughts out there because (one possible answer I have to this question is that what) I could share with you, with anyone is innovative, rhetorical, etc. I want to give people perspective and most literally trigger new pathways in the brain. That's what grabs my attention. I don't like to argue but I love to debate and I love people who disagree with me. i love opposing views and more perspective but I refuse to debate with someone who doesn't obtain the mental maturity or compacity to even try and understand an contradicting point of view. Give your claim some warrant and I'll give it all the thought I'm capable of, but just shove your opinion down my throat and I'll shove my foot up your ass.