It's really hard for me to get new friends online and irl , and it really sucks . Like they'll always find another person to replace me somehow . I've tried literally everything , joining this site , being more active in dc and Instagram and also trying to talk more irl , but nothing is working . I don't know what I'm doing wrong ,,, I mean it could be me who's just really unattractive and awkward . Idk it just makes me depressed when I think about my life , because nothing good ever happens or last . Having friends or someone to be with is like the only reason for me to live , I don't have anything else
How can I be more likeable ?
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sorry to hear. i used to struggle with making friends too when i was a middle schooler. if it helps, i dont think it has anything to do with being 'unattractive'. i'm sure you're kind and funny.
imo, you can be more likeable by putting yourself out there more. don't pull away from interaction. make yourself helpful. start conversations with people youve never met before. who knows? maybe you'll make a lifelong friend. you just have to believe in yourself and not doubt your ability for human connection.
also, you should probably live for yourself. friends are cool and all, but you'll always be your own best friend. we're all we've got! good luck!