As a nonbinary 2

And I understand that being nonbinary is all about not needing to follow the social construct that is the binary of masc and fem. But the thing is I've grown up with these social norms so much that it's hard not to use it as at least a reference to how I want to present myself and be perceived.

For instance, I don't want a masc haircut. I feel happy with having hair that could be percieved as "fem" to the regular joe, but I do hope that my masc clothes make up for it. I love wearing masc clothes. They're comfy and make me feel less nervous about standing out the way I did when I once wore fem clothes. I only wish to blend in and be a true "average joe" to any stranger.