I would've said "Yes that's fine" If you had asked me, but the fact that you didn't was odd

Some more stuff from my relationship with my ex-friend. 

A couple years back they had told me that they shared some personal stuff I had told them with their (at the time) partner. They had said that their partner got upset on my behalf because he had shared some of my mental health struggles/that I was suicidal. My friend had told me after the fact to be like "Isn't it so weird that he was upset, not like you would've cared" and here's the thing, no.. I didn't really care, I would've said that it's fine if you had asked, but ngl it was weird af that you didn't. 

Like, you really shouldn't be sharing that kind of stuff with other people without explicit permission, and the fact that he never asked was weird as fuck lmao. His ex partner was a fucking lunatic, but something something broken clock lol. Like he had a point lmao. I don't know why I didn't say that I would've preferred him to ask first, even if I would've said yes regardless but ngl I felt awkward as fuck and didn't want to make him feel bad. It was another one of those situations where it was like "you're so lucky you did this shit with me and not someone else". 

This happened many times, he was/is someone who screenshots your convos and shares them online or with other people without asking. A lot of the time these were shared with friends of theirs that I didn't know well and wasn't even apart of these group chats. No, none of the things they shared were "bad" but I didn't really feel comfortable with having my dms screenshotted and saved in a folder on his computer lmao. Again, I never said anything because this was normal behavior within his friendgroup and I didn't want to be the weird one or make a fuss about something that probably wasn't meant with ill intent at the time. 

However ngl, it did make me kind of paranoid when talking to them, like if we have a falling out are you going to blast my dms to you all over? Like you did with other people? I know he probably is rn lmao. 

Also another reason why I didn't feel like there was a point in confronting his behavior when I should have. Like I knew he would claim that he didn't remember whatever it was, and then ask for receipts. Like sorry man I don't really fuck with that shit because I think screenshotting and saving records of your convos is genuinely strange behavior.