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nine months from now, i've wrote my position on online friendships at the time. back then, i believed that i couldn't make online friendships because those would be even more reasons to look at the screen, and that i didn't want to have friendships that work as long as you have internet.
ever since then, my view has drastically changed, making a nice friend cycle and after adding, unadding, and even blocking few people, then to finally get to the decision of not accept friend requests anymore. i still carry a bit of what i used to think, just with new stuff sprinkled alongside.
i think online friendships can be healthy. but sometimes i always feel the need to keep a friendship. this pressure to keep talking just to not lose someone, but if there's something i learned with my irl friend,ย nulevoy,ย is that friendships shouldn't require effort to start. you could spend months without talking to a true friend, come back and the chemistry would remain the same. and honestly? that's kinda what happened to everyone of my irl friend group. we don't talk much, but we love each other, and we are here to support each other.
unfortunately, i've tried this "keeping the fire up" behaviour with few people and yeah of course it didn't go well. but with those who i didn't do that, i managed to keep a very nice friendship (which im eternally grateful for all of you who are added on my profile).
i have been kind of irresponsible when it's about time management, though... i still constantly look at notifications and try to reply as soon as possible to the point of making me stop everything i'm doing to reply. i have been keeping an eye on that and i'm thinking on possible solutions to that... i'm doing good, just workin on myself a little bit on that.
shoutout to my irl friends who are here, nuveloy and ethanol.
also, shoutout to many of my online friends, who helped me during my tough times list below:
to everyone i've mentioned -ย i love each one of you and i really wish i could hangout with you guys one day. thank you for everything and i hope to still talk to you guys <3
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~nykku
I think I'll never have a non-online friendship :(
Dreamy<3Laura
THIS IS SO CUTE
Though we haven't talked much personally, your posts show something clear, that you seem like a very genuine, sensitive and kind guy, and I would love to be there for you if you needed it, I relate so much to you in some ways and It would be an honor to be able to connect more if you wanted to :P
In a way, I stay active on here because I want to keep reading your stuff hahaha , some are so intense but soo real and meaningful that I'ts very easy to open up and give you advice on thnigs :)
Sometimes I just don't know how to start conversations or friendships, but I definetly want to keep up with you!!!
LAURAAAAAAA
dude youre such a wise and cool person. I really love the long comments you always leave, im so thankful to have you on my friend group <33 can say the same to you
by maciel; ; Report
Thank youuuuu
๏ธ I swear you're so cool too I need to become closer to you for real
by Dreamy<3Laura; ; Report
jolly cherikizu ๐
JSKADJAKJSADB THANK YOU DUDE!!!!
so glad this site exists, people are super cool around here and i'm so glad we got to find our people!!!
I should be thanking you!!! and yeah im so happy too <3
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itrhld
LOOK MOM I'M ON BRAZILIAN TV LOOK AT ME
I AM SO GLAD OF THIS MACI, IDEK WHAT TO SAY !!!!! i am so happy to have found this blue dot in the ocean. thank you so much for mentioning me and for being yourself! i can't wait to witness more and more stuff about you, and to let you into my stuff as well. time is not an enemy, you definitely know how to handle it already.
congrats for your journey so far! and thank you again ^^
by itrhld; ; Report
buddy >I< should be thanking you for everything!! youre such a wise person and you just deal with stuff so well even if it doesnt look like so. im proud of you and i couldnt be even more grateful to be with you
by maciel; ; Report
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by itrhld; ; Report
Samon(FAIRY GAYFATHER)
KJDHJHSGDSAGHGDJGJHDGSJDJH YIPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
YOU'RE AN OG MACI BRO'S BEEN THERE EVER SINCE I STARTED SPH๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน
YOU'VE HELPED THROUGH A LOTTTTT
I'M SO GRATEFUL YOU'RE MY FRIEND๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน
im grateful for you too <3
by maciel; ; Report
Y3k_Nath
nossa pior que eu nunca tinha parado pra pensar desse jeito de amizades virtuais igual vc colocou no primeiro parรกgrafo
eu tbm te amo muito mamaciel!
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by maciel; ; Report
moon
wow yeah you are coming home with me now
love you too HEHHEGRERGEGRHEGREGRGEGHGH
JAYDNSJWJEUEW <33
by maciel; ; Report
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thank you macbook pro
youre welcome bunny
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cherrytamagochi
omagaaaa que fofo maci!!!!! tbm ti amuu ๐๐๐ vc รฉ um querido
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by maciel; ; Report
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HHHHHHWWHHWHWHBRBBHRBRHBRHBRBHRBHRBBRHRBRHBRRBHRHBHHHHHHH WHHEWEHHAHEHAHEWHHHHHHHHHWHHAHHWWAWAWAWAAAWHAHWAHHHHHHHHHH <<3<3,3<3<3<#,<#,3<3<#,3<, FJGDUIFGHUGFDJASFHDHA :3 /affectionate /silly
u my friend now lets play ultrakill together /ref
we love you broooooooooodhawgduagefwgsofue
i love you all too
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Kenny
no, thank YOU ๐
<33
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Nulevoy
hmmm, u know what, lets test this, see u again in 10 years XP
NOOOOOOOOOOO
but tbh thank you <3 you've helped me a lot already and what you said has been so informative and insightful. thank you for helping me become a better person!!
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<3
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mariia ๐
aaa maci ๐๐
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