Don't ever get no BPD diagnosis

title is a joke lol

but its crazy how romanticized mental illnesses are these days (that makes me sound old af)

like no girl you don't want depression its not cute or silly. 'Omg bed rottingg x' have you tried not getting out of bed for days, not brushing your teeth or bathing for weeks bc you don't have the energy?

I've also seen alot of guys being like omg i want a girl that's obsessed with me and only needs me

NO YOU DONTT. Borderline is no fucking joke, being the favorite person of someone with BPD is exhausting. I've deliberately stopped myself from developing attachments like that bc i know how mentally draining it is. Like i completely ruined a relationship bc i had BPD. Like full on had to go no contact, blocked me on everything type of bad. I wish ppl understood how awful it is to be mentally ill in some way, and that its not just some silly trend to get out of being held responsible for things. Which btw mentally ill people should be held responsible for things they do unless theyre literally unable to understand like if its a psychotic break or smth. Even then they deserve to know and understand what happened bc ts is not fun at all

Anyways im mostly just ranting bc tiktok pmo so bad sometimes its unreal maybe we should ban it /hj