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In my opinion, no. Definitely not. And dont tell me "yes they can!!" Because in my eyes thats simply just not true. No one I know has ever ever changed unless you count just growing up. I havent changed either, I probably wont nor do I really want to. I feel like the person I am, the person I have been for all of my life will remain the same forever. Why should I change? And I dont mean to be egotistical and say I'm perfect and theres nothing to change - because believe me, there definitely is, and I am working on that. But changing little aspects of me, how I look and my personality isnt gonna change me. I am who I am, and I believe everyone else is aswell.
Change and evolving is definitely hard, and for me at least, no matter how much I try to change myself I really just always get back to the way I was. So, why should I continue trying to do that, if I could always just accept what I am? Why should I need to change for someone? In my opinion, people who think a person should "change for them"(of course small stuff doesnt count here) should just find someone new. And I dont mean like "working on your anger issues, doing stuff differently" but just changing something about yourself that makes you, you. You shouldnt have to change yourself completely for someone else when they could just find someone that already fits those standards. Just accept who you are, because you literally cant change the person you are and will be forever
Anyways, just my opinion lmk what you think.
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Sleepy... ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁
I agree with these. I think changing myself for myself is good, but I've never understood why someone would want to change a harmless thing about themselves just to please others. It's stupid and sad to me. Just be yourself. Someone isn't worth your time if they don't love all of you, and vice versa.
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Farah ★彡
Physically, you can REALLY change, but I think mentally is rare, I don't think it's impossible.
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willy
I think most people def can change.
We- as a physical person, can change completely. You can change your body, your hair, your face. Us people, a living being with a personality will constantly be changing. You're not the same person you were 2-8 years ago. I think we do change, it's just slow. So we never notice
Yeah i mean obviously you can change your physical appearance and yeah i guess I agree with the changing but still, I stand with my opinion
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