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Listen, I'm not some great writer, but I could write pages on love. Like actual love. I feel like love these days, a lot of the time is dead. And I'm not saying true love doesn't exist, because trust me- it most definitely does. I'm just saying that a lot of people aren't even really looking for love anymore. Sure, they get into relationships but do they really even matter if you never truly liked them, and if you break up after a month? Especially I feel like a lot of teenagers just expect to get into a life-long relationship at 12 years old. Which sure, if you both in the relationship share that mutual feeling, it's understandable but it's unfair of a person to expect that of their partner, no? But then again, I don't understand why people would get into a relationship if not for the long term? Maybe it gets different when you're older, I dont know. 

True, actual love, or from what it's been in my experience is probably different than what I expected, to say the least. Being in love is still being your own person, hell - its mostly that. It's good to be your own person and not be dependent on them. Its healthy. It's just such an odd feeling, but great at the same time. When you're in love you will know. And yes, I'm probably not some expert on this topic but I know whats healthy. Another important thing is communication. Now, I haven't quite gotten the hang of that myself, but if you're willing to change, and most importantly - try for the person, that's a lot by itself. 

Being in love is just so blissful, and I, at least, can't see a single flaw in the person I'm in love with. And I really dont know how she can.

Anyways, just wanted to share my thoughts and was feeling a bit romantic, bye!!!


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Deranged Duchess

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but how does one know they are in love? I cant differentiate if i love someone or just like them


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Usually loving someone is really just a deeper contrast of having a huge emotional investment, connection and commitment to them and your relationship with them. Then just liking somebody could be seen as just enjoying their company, sharing the same interests and just base level stuff.

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