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- no aftercare. he'd nut and then be like "ok lol" and throw me a towel. probably from the porn addict habit of turning the screen off once he's finished. ew.
- he only bought me nice flowers when he asked me out for the first time. the rest of the time it was ugly flowers from the supermarket. even for my birthday he got me the shitty supermarket flowers.
- he jerked off to kpop videos on youtube. totally innocent videos of girls dancing. slowed down to capture wardrobe malfunctions and the like. he jerked off to random women on instagram (most likely including people he knew personally. yuck). i also have reason to believe he was jerking off to asmr content on youtube. he was convinced this behavior was normal and innocent.
- he would ask me to come over some nights and then end up playing video games with his friend. wondered why i was upset and crying.
- he never took pictures of me unless i asked him to. he also would almost never agree to be in pictures with me.
- he would ask me why im "so dressed up" everytime i came over. he knew i was into fashion but made me feel like im weird for wanting to look my best. meanwhile, he wears shirts that are 3x his size and stained pants and tennis shoes that have been beaten down to the ground and look like they're straight up rotting.
- he magically never happened to have deodorant on him.
- he knew i had hobbies and interests but he never took an interest in them himself.
- he has this annoying high-pitched voice with a slight southern twang. very girly laugh (this was a turn off when i first met him and it became a turn off towards the end too).
- everytime i sent him something funny or a meme or just straight up messaged him something random out of the blue (bids for attention) he'd ignore it or give some dry ass response. so boring.
- he calls himself "demisexual" (i'm sorry but i don't believe in demisexuality ; i think only being sexually attracted to people you are close to is normal. also this wasn't even the case for him because he was sexually attracted to pornstars and kpop idols and random thots on instagram and tiktok).
- he told me he wanted to be a dad when we first started dating. when i went to visit his aunt, uncle and (child) cousins on thanksgiving last year he practically ignored them the whole time. when he wasn't ignoring them, he was dismissive towards them and almost seemed annoyed. very father-like behavior!
- very often implied that i'm some sort of temptress/slut/whore. one time he straight up called me trashy. why'd he call me trashy? because i posted an artsy picture of my legs in a candlelit bubble bath while holding a glass of wine. meanwhile, he's jerking it to random instagram girls. compulsively. LOL!
- we were having sex one time and i was visibly uncomfortable and in pain (crying) and he wouldn't stop fucking me.
- he engaged in my bdsm kink with me maybe 3 times total over the entire course of the relationship. i kept mentioning how i wanted to be tied up and he kept saying okay let's do it that's hot. yeah that never happened.
- he got me to start going to the gym while he stopped going himself. showed concern to me about his weight but he never started going to the gym again.
- he always either had to be drunk or high to enjoy my company. always found weed pens in random places and he'd act embarrassed every single time.
- he was violently into midwest emo.
- on most nights out he'd beg me to leave early. he knows i enjoy edm shows and there has been more than one occasion where we'd gone together and 30 minutes in he starts visibly acting bored and pissed off. i'd have to begrudgingly agree to leave to appease him.
- he sucked at making plans on his own and had to ask me what we should do more times than not.
- would lie about the most random insignificant things to make himself look better. for example, he told me he was 5'10" on multiple occasions after we'd already started dating ; his ID literally said 5'8 on it. he would also lie about how much certain things he did for me cost, inflating the price to look like he'd spent more money on it than i thought. examples include concert tickets and birthday gifts.
- he doesn't care about his sister at all.
- his bed was never made and his laundry was strewn out on the floor or the bed about 75% of the time i was over.
yeah. i don't know why i dated him either.
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everett
damnnnn i hope it was you who left and not him!
Lilyxpinx
dudeeee men who don´t like aftercare are the woooorse like, fine if you don´t wanna huge me but at least buy me someting for eat after giving you the benefit of fucking me you knooow
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Geez dude, how the hell do you find degenerates?
wanking off to porn is one thing, wanking off to K Pop is some diabolical bullfuckery.
And who the fuck hates fashion? Literally one of the few ways we can appear cool to people outside irl
Hope you manage to move on from the 'tard. Saw awful lot of them back school, used to know a twink cunt who used to wank off to wikipedia pages about WW1 tanks and would pretend to be a girl online to get whore attention. Bastard managed to catfish someone from our school to the point of making him do weird kinky shit. It took me and some other guys to reveal to him that the "hot goth woman" he was "dating" was just a gay fella who was making a fool of him. Ever since then he shakes whenever a girl approaches to him, even for relationship or friendship.
HAHAHAHA this made me laugh. thank you so much.
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Nah mate my jaw kept going down the more I kept reading it. I even refreshed the page to see if I was on reddit or 4chan or AO3. I sometimes wanna know what goes through people's head. I have seen guys ignore awesome women like a tiger ignoring a juicy cow, and women ignoring cool men like a cat actively avoiding catnip. There are people who die of thirst whilst there are man who drown in it. I wonder if its individual problem or the whole "More is less and less is more" shitshow. If it's the later, some people just need to throw some hands.
God, or whatever's up in the delulu land, gives his best to his most ungrateful. And I'm not even religious.
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I had an ex just like him. Ew.
we're in this together <3
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