Most Woman don't wanna get pregnant anymore.
Some people ask "why? Having a baby is the best thing that could happen to you." And its not It destroyed your entire body and its not even openly talked about. Most woman don't talk about all of pregnancy about how it can destroy your entire body or even life. Some get chronically illnesses they didn't even know about before yes it has probably been in their genes before but pregnancy triggered it a lot of people also get diabetes you can loose teeth nails and it's over all just horrible pain. These things can happen they don't need to but they can and some just don't wanna take the risk. Also every pregnancy can come with difficulties you can die your baby can die we have a lot of medicals to help but you can die.
Also raising a child is a lot you just got ripped in two you can't even shit you bleed through for weeks and society already expects you to loose weight after you push a whole human out and now you have also a screaming bundle on your hands that just wants to suckle on your chest and shits every 5 minutes. The sad thing is there are still a lot of shitty husbands out there ones who don't want to change the baby just because it's maybe a girl or they don't love it because it's a girl. Some of them expect the woman to be a stay at home mom a few days after they gave birth.
And the next couple of years won't get easier. You spend a lot of money on the child you don't know how they'll turn out you try your best to raise them and make mistakes And your child could get wrong influences and be bad people.
Raising Kids isn't easy your entire life will get fucked so I understand people who get abortions and I have th biggest respect of all mothers!
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Linda
motherhood is WAYY too romanticized. Especially in todays economy, having a kid is so goddamn financially draining and I really dont wanna have to choose whether I buy another pack of diapers or enough groceries in 10 years or so. Crazy thing is, I like kids, I really do. But I dont want any of my own. You wouldnt bat an eye to someone who enjoys cooking but doesnt run a restaurant right away would you? No. So why treat women that way when it comes to offspring?
Susie
LOUDER!! honestly i myself don't think that i'm gonna be a good mother. i just don't feel like it, don't like kids either :/ maybe someday but every women should have the right to decide about themselfs and no man should tell them differently.