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Holy shit it's so much worse
I CBA to recap read my last blog entry if you're curious
She compared me to a Nazi, said I listen to an Iron Age Sex Slave Manual, I just fucking can't with her
Why can't I just leave this damn friendship? Why the fuck did I have to get so close to her? Why did I become so unhealthily attatched?
The poison tastes like candy and I keep drinking it even though it's killing me
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There's no point hating them. It's like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Just talk to them about this. From my experience, if they don't try to change or work things out, it'll never get better.
secondly you can talk to other friends, get closer with them, and spend time with family. if you have multiple people around you that you can lean on you'll gradually get less attached.
not saying it's not rough. but I believe in you. if you're already attached to someone who makes you feel horrible, imagine how happy you'll feel with good people around you 👍
The thing is I have tried leaving in the past and things got worse, they got better eventually but it took several months and wasn't particularly related to them to begin with. I know leaving is the solution but I can't bring myself to do it
by Forgotten_Lemon; ; Report
I don't know whether they'll continue to get worse or better either. However if you're unsure what would make you able to leave, perhaps try to write down a small list of things you won't accept.
For example specific things, like, "If she punches me, that's it." Or "If she does more than 50% of the things I dislike written down on the list, currently or in the future, that's that."
In short, set a clear line. And nothing unrealistic like "We'll only stop being friends if she murders someone", keep in mind a good standard for a friendship.
Follow through, past is past. I'm doing the same right now.
by 889; ; Report