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Today i went to a furmeet with my roomates, it was only 3 of us as the 3rd roomate had to go to work. I'll be honest, the day before and this week I've isolated myself, it's been pretty bad on me but today I was a complete douce to her (it was about me feeling replaced and alone). My roomate was in the car with me on our way to get dinner (the roomate who was at work during the furmeet got to get out of work ealry and her and them took their car while it was me and the other roomate) and we talked about it a bit, not how i felt but bout my behavior. I feel really bad and i wanna remedy this situation with her. I wanna let her know my feelings, of feeling like i was replaced, how distant she was being towards me. Seeming like she didn't intend to get back with me. I wanna tell her about all that and apologize for my recent behavior and how i can fix myself, if not for me and her at least for a healthier friendship within this household. What should i do? (My previous blog post has more context granted it was me at my most emotional)
I was an asshole to someone i care about, I wanna remedy this.
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Eodese
The best thing I can say is just contact her witht whatever means of communication. As someone WHO'S TERRIFIED of having these kinds of convos, reaching out like this, whether in person or text or letter, helps a lot. It shows the person that you are self aware about your actions and you care about how the consequences have affected the other person. If you can't say everything just yet (because she's busy or something) at least tell her that you want to talk and explain the reason behind your behaviour. Maybe even get creative, like writing it in a letter and sliding it under their door.
Hope this helped<3
Nick Tete
Call her for a dinner and try explain your feelings and talk more with her about it