you must be ___

you must be soft, but not too soft. you shouldn't be so weak.

you must be strong, but not too strong. nobody likes a show-off.

you must be pretty, but don't try so hard. who are you trying to show off for?

you must be smart, but don't be so loud about it. where is your sense of humility?

you must be honest, but not that honest. no one asked for your life story.

you must be confident, but not that confident. you're seriously way too cocky. 

why can't i just be me?