i feel like women are always viewed as passively or not even enjoying of sex, but what about those of us who are actually very sexual? and enjoy doing sexual things? but then your partner is unused to this concept of women as being sexual and treats your sexuality like an afterthought because it is so unfamiliar to them? or think it is something shameful perhaps? and because you are so sexual you constantly give them sexual favors for nothing in return with the hopes that they will be equally interested in satisfying your own desires? but they don't because they already get everything they need from you? and it's a never-ending loop? really struggling here

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Creative Name
As a guy I'm sure my word doesn't hold as much weight as I'm someone who doesn't go through this personal struggle, but I do know that women being sexual is shunned way too much when it's a completely normal thing. The best you can do is be comfortable with your own sexuality and put your foot down and tell your significant other to fulfills your desires, if they don't then it' likely they don't view your desires as worthwhile and you should consider talking about it with them and possibly moving on if they continue to disrespect the fact that you're an individual with sexual desires that deserve to be fulfilled
btw being someone who enjoys sexual activities does NOT make you a slut and you're completely valid for wanting your desires to be fulfilled
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kayness
i think men feel intimidated when a woman expresses herself sexually, puts herself out there as they think women should be docile and giving. i see a lot of posts all over the internet where they say they want these women, but when it comes down to it they're annoyed and threatened that she holds so much power. at least that's the way i see it :ppp