#32 - CIRCUMSTANCE

I've been feeling very conflicted as of late... I have been wondering about the nature of external events and their effect on the psyche as of late, and though my heart tells me one thing, my mind tells me another. If what is in control is our minds, how can we explain trauma and its effect? Is it really so easy to reconcile with? I have a hard time saying such is the case, considering the evidence seems to be stacked up against such a thesis.

Another problem with such a theory is that it can be seen that external validation is necessary in the proper development of children, and that a lack of such is irreversible during adulthood. This is a circumstance completely outside of the individual's control, yet has a direct effect on their well being in life. How can we in good faith say that the blame be put on said individual?

Perhaps there is something I am missing, but I cannot put my finger on what precisely. If what I have stated is all true however... I fear the nature of the implications a thesis like this would have on not only my mental state but also others who I share this with, if it is true that is.

I doubt that this is the case, however, despite all of these facts. I have faith in God that things will be alright.