mental health will ruin your relationship

You warned me this would happen. I didn't listen. I thought I had it under control, but I didn't. I thought that it was just another passing moment and it would all get better, but I was wrong. I didn't do anything to help it or get better, and I let my mental health deteriorate. It ruined us. I am so sorry I didn't listen when you had warned me those months ago.

If you don't have good mental health, if you struggle, or if it gets worse, I encourage you do try and do everything you can to get better. If you are in a relationship, don't just let it get worse and don't do anything about it. If you let it get worse, it will eventually start hurting your relationship. Your partner may love you, you may be the love of their life, but in the end, they will have no choice but to leave. You will put this idea in their head that you won't ever get better, and that your relationship will be stuck in this endless cycle of negativity and toxicity. And, although they don't want to, they will have to leave. If not for themselves, then for you.

Eventually it will get to a point where they snap, where they cannot handle it anymore. The relationship will get so bad that the hope they once had of it working out, disappears. If you do not prioritize your mental health, it will ruin your relationship. It will create toxicity and it will hurt both of you. At some point you have to make a choice, let your mental health get worse and ruin the love of your life, or focus on getting better so you don't lose the love of your life.

Please, if you are reading this, don't let your mental health ruin your life. Get help. Don't lose the love of your life. It will be the worst, most painful thing you will ever have to go through, and you may never be able to get them back.