To be loved isn't to mess around.

To be loved isn't to mess around. 

It isn't to go from one person to person 

Its not "fall in love" with the first person who treats you like a normal person 

It to feel comfortable in ones arms , to be able to open up about any little problem and for them to confront you . 

To be loved isn't to go from one person to another quickly it's ok if you can't let go but at some period of time stop sulking you can't let it eat at you but do note it takes time to heal which is ok and completely normal . You can be friends with someone without seeking attention or "wanting ' them .

Yes you'll come around"friends" that will want you for favors but that doesn't mean to give in for validation even if you not getting attention and feel depressed or alone .