*ੈ✩‧₊˚༺the fear of putting yourself out there༻*ੈ✩‧₊˚(advice ramble from a weird teenage they/them)

You cant be scared of saying the wrong thing that you dont speak at all, you can't be so scared you'll get made fun of that you dont enjoy things, you cant be so scared to mess up that you dont live. 

I dont know anything im just a sad teenager, but i know this.

I think lately ive been so scared to be really genuinely seen for who i am, ive been scared to put myself out there, but ive realized its not worth it. just being unapologetically yourself is better in the end. its okay to make mistakes its okay to not know what to say, we dont always have to know everything. 

its okay. 

trying is better than not trying, dont give up before you've even started.

put yourself out there, let people follow your space hey account even though you can be judged. Your only a person, we are all only people. (some of my irl friends have my account and thats chill:> its okay!!!!11111!11!1111!!!!! and im not gonna stop posting blogs cuz their cringey or might be judged wahtever, these are fun:>)

life is a performance, a constant balancing act of trying to make sure everyone is okay and ur doing the right thing, but u cant be so scared to mess up the performance that you dont get a chance to live a real life.

my metaphors are wack but i think you get what im trying to say. 

i think a life where you hide all the negative parts of you or parts that might be slightly weird or cringey or whatever fucking else isnt worth it. Be your imperfect self, let people see your imperfect self. See other peoples imperfect selves and accept them. love ur friends and love urself man ur probably chill:>

if you get anything from this blog entry i want it to be that you shouldnt be so scared to be yourself, you shouldnt be so scared to try. 

(P.S. i want to make it clear that im not trying to be like, its okay to be awful and be a dick, im trying to say that its okay to mess up, and its okay to apologize, its okay to do things we regret, its okay to live you dont have to hide ur mistakes or imperfections. You matter! but so do other people! respect yourself and respect other people) 

as blue foster once said "we are all just stupid bitches trying just to get along."-mr. smith, 3rd period, forever! by blue foster