life is too cruel to be happy, or life is too cruel to be sad?

I briefly talked about it before, but I just realized how important perspective is.. everyone's outlook on life is different. realism, pessimism, optimism.. to be honest theres also way more or maybe all at once. labels are not very accurate..-- I can see where everyone's interpretation can come from. I understand how a situation can be seen as bad. or how it can be seen as good, aswell. but I never know what is right. in the end, what is the right choice? sometimes theres so many possibilities that it feels absurd that there is a possibility of only one of them being the correct one. or maybe all of them are correct. its so interesting to me to hear one story explained from someone and the same story explained by another person, and see the tone change and the change of belief, even if brief. I like hearing about what someone thinks of a topic solely because of this. the human mind is amazing to me in this sector. so many can change just because of one persons opinion. can honestly go on about this for longer but its 1 am and tomorrow is a monday with school. have a nice day, whoever's reading (^ ^)