Lately I've been wondering about how people balance friendships and relationships. I really can't think of a time when I wouldn't want to be hanging out with my best friends over anyone else. I don't know if that's bad to say but it's just how I've always felt. Maybe when you find the right person they become your favourite person? I just can't imagine loving anyone more than I love my best friends. It's definitely platonic love by the way lol. It's just, hanging out with good friends is like escaping from the rest of the world, they make everything okay for a little while. I know a partner is supposed to do that too but how could a parter really get you as much as the girls do? Who is there for you before, during and after? It baffles me to see people that blow off their friends for a guy, and I've seen it so many times. Don't get me wrong, I know what it's like to be infatuated with someone. But I feel like even then, I could never blow off my friends. Some people I know completely left the group after getting a boyfriend and then realised later that friends are important too. Idk I just feel like I'd always rather be hanging out with them and I can't imagine that changing. Maybe when I find the right person that will change and that's how I'll know.
Anyways, that's my 2 cents on the matter.
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☄️Mikachau!!⋆.ೃ࿔*:•
I'll be honest with you, it has to be THE person.
yeah I'm starting to realise I haven't found my person yet
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