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nothing lasts, so why chase it?

hey there, here i jst want to share abt something that always coming up in my mind. why do people seek temporary pleasure?? people chase love, happiness, excitement, basically everything, just to feel something for a moment? that's kinda weird. but i'm more talking about people who date just to feel something, who do drugs, who smoke, who buy stuff they don’t even need. i jst don’t get it.

why do people love buying new things? yeah i get it, u feel happy after u get what u want. but then? after a while, it gets old, and u stop caring about it. it just sits there collecting dust. same thing with relationships. at first, it’s all fun and exciting. u meet someone, u fall for them, everything feels amazing. u spend time together, make memories, share laughs. but then? one day, u wake up and realize the feelings aren’t as strong anymore. the excitement fades, boredom, and suddenly, breaking up feels like the only option. it's like people only want the thrill and not the commitment. because love can burn like a cigarette, its quick, its intense, but fading just as fast.

and smoking? dude, maybe it looks cool at first. u try it, u cough, but then that feelings from the nicotine hits, and suddenly, u wanna do it again.. and again. u start telling urself it's just for fun, just to feel something. but before u know it, it’s not fun anymore. it’s a habit. an addiction. and guess what’s waiting for u at the end of that road? a frickin lung cancer. health problems. regret.all for what? just to chase a feeling that never lasts?

same with drugs. people start because they’re curious, or they just wanna escape reality for a bit. one high turns into another, and before they know it, they’re stuck in a cycle, needing more and more just to feel "okay". and then what? their body gives out, their life spirals, and it all ends in nothing. was it worth it?so what’s the point? what’s the point of chasing something that was never meant to last??? i think about this a lot. how do u find happiness that doesn’t just fade away?? how do u feel at peace forever?? i don’t think there’s an answer. maybe it’s impossible. and yeah, i do stuff to distract myself too, like playing games, scrolling through my phone for some temporary entertainment. but at the end of the day, i still wonder. what's the actual point of it?

01/04/2025


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☆Matty_Smatty☆

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Honestly, I feel like it's legit just part of being a human. Not that one would think otherwise, but we want to feel joy and latch onto it when we can. I think maybe we chase it because we're scared of the moment we don't have it. We don't know when the next upsetting or depressing moment will come around, for all we know, it could be around the corner, so we might as well get a kick out of it. No idea, LOL. (Of course, I'm not endorsing hedonistic behavior, just thinking out loud. We should all probably try to be smart about how we spend our time. Enjoy it, but know that what you're doing can give you long-term pleasure, not just a short-lived feeling)


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Dio

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temporary pleasure is an escape. If someone is happy they wouldn't need those temporary pleasures.

now as for how to be happy...idk

Honestly, should our goal even be to be happy? Life happens, sometimes life makes us happy, sometimes sad, upset...there's ups and downs and that's what makes every moment of your life precious and valuable.

And I would argue that temporary pleasures are a part of life's experience.


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i get what u mean. maybe people chase temporary stuff because they’re just tryna escape something deeper. and yeah, life isn’t just about being happy all the time, sometimes it sucks, sometimes it’s good, and that’s what makes it feel real i guess. maybe i’ve been looking at it too black and white. thanks for sharing ur view, it actually made me think a bit

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♥Lydia♥

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temporarily enjoying something is still enjoying it which makes it worth it


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idk about drugs tho

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for me it just feels like a waste of time. like yeaa u enjoy it for a bit, but then what?? it’s gone, and u gotta chase the next thing. i’d rather work towards something that actually lasts, something real, instead of just hopping from one temporary high to another.

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