love has completely lost its meaning

there’s no such thing as love in this generation? why?? hey there, i’m Abian. i wanna talk abt something that’s been on my mind. every time i check the internet, my fyp is filled with videos of goodlooking guys and girls. and when i look at the comments, it’s always people saying the wildest, most inappropriate things.. like straight up nasty stuff, yk?

and it's not just online. at school, i always hear people talking about their "type." every time they ask each other about their ideal guy or girl, it’s always about appearance. like, what?? why does it always come down to looks? i mean.. yeah, looks does matter, but love isn’t supposed to be just about that. it’s up to u if u call me an ugly person or… badlooking person? i’m just here to share my opinion.

i feel like love has completely lost its meaning. people do "fall in love," but it’s not real love. it’s something else. nowadays, love is just lust. oh and i remember asking one of the girls at my school what her type was, and she said, "oh, i want him to be muscular, hot adam’s apple, veiny hands, good in bed..." like, what?? it’s always about looks and.. naughty stuff that they want to do? but i’m not saying it’s just girls. the guys are the same. i hear my male classmates talking about women like, "i want her to have a big this, a big that, a beautiful body..." dude ion even wanna finish that sentence.

like, what do y’all even want from it? just to have fun??? dude that’s disgusting as heck. this isn’t love anymore. not the real kind. people nowadays just follow their lust, and.. i hate it.

real love is built on trust, respect, and commitment. it’s about accepting someone completely, flaws and all, and choosing them even when things aren’t perfect. love isn’t just about passion.. it’s about understanding, patience, and selflessness. it’s about caring for someone, not for what they can give u, but simply because u want the best for them.

but lust? lust is just physical attraction. it’s intense, but it’s not deep. it’s temporary. it doesn’t need trust, commitment, or anything real. it’s just wanting someone in the moment instead of choosing them for the long haul.

and that’s why i hate when people talk about their "type," and all they mention is looks or some nasty stuff about what they wanna do in bed. like, why is that the first thing on ur mind?? why is that the only thing that matters??

hmm.. one day, i just wanna have a real family. where my wife and i actually care for each other, where we don’t worry about lust, just real love. i hope i get to experience that one day.

31/03/2025