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I'm afab, and I feel like a girl, but more so in the way that a trans woman feels like a girl, and I guess I kind of align with the idea of being nonbinary with a hint of masculinity
I go by he/she/they pronouns.
I dress femininely (in a sexual way because it makes me more comfortable when I do so), masculinely, and androgynously (whenever I have the energy to dress nicely XD).
Cisgender is not a term that fits me whatsoever (especially because once you become trans, you can never un-trans yourself, or it's at the very least difficult to), Demigirl doesn't really explain it either due to that very subtle masculine hint, and I only identify as nonbinary because there's no other labels to describe me as. Genderfluid also doesn't describe me either, because I would have to fluctuate between genders at an equal amount of feeling, therefore what I identify as would count as an imbalance of those genders and therefore i would not count as genderfluid.
If anyone has any ideas, feel free to let me know, thanks.
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RJ
i call myself bigender, because i consider myself a man and a woman - which... there's some discussion to be had i think about the paradox of that. if i'm both am i also something different altogether? but i digress.
ultimately, it's about what label resonates with you, or if none do, that's okay too. you don't have to call yourself anything. you also don't have to figure this out right away.
be kind to yourself, and let yourself take the time to figure it all out. don't let anyone stress you out about it either. move at your own pace, is i guess what i'm trying to say.
i wish you luck, you've got this!
Thank you.
Tbf, it's not as big of an issue for me as it were a couple months back, but I still don't really know what I am lol
Would I be in the wrong though if I said I were a transfemme because of that "trans girl" feeling I have or would it be okay? (genuine question)
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personally i wouldn't go for it but i'm not transfem so idk if i can speak on that. i might not be the person to ask.
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