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based on my thoughts and things that happened lately I think I got something on my mind.
I think I will officially stop look for a relationship and males attention for now. and the big thing wait until marriage.yeah I know that it’s something which might not happen at 16 but still, not even look for someone is not easy for me tbh.
social media kills romance, its so pointless and cheap having this kind of attitude. I don’t want to hear anymore “do you want replay” or “you are the prettiest girl in the world” but obviously not mean it. WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS OMG YOU JUST SAW ME. Its so unattractive and gross to be this kind of person who just look for sex instead of having an actual healthy and respectful relationship with one woman. i am really tired of these weirdos approaching me and trying to hit on me and think I will fall in love with them the second they talk to me.
why do some girls thinks that being a player and rude is attractive? gosh please be quiet and never talk again.
For me, if there is someone I like but I see they are trying to be this way or just be something else to impress its just not right. you shouldn’t change yourself to be like “hi see we are so alike now you should like me”. i think its totally not worth it and a waste of time and effort. One day, I know god will find a way to make me meet the love of my life who doesn’t just want me to sleep with him and then disappear.
Its so sad that I am the only one who thinks that way.
honestly I wish I could just have one man for the rest of my life and we will be like those cute old couples who have been together for so many years.
god bless
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Digital Cheese
Honestly, I have no clue what is the point of people acting as someone they are not in order to get with someone. If they thought it out for more than a few seconds, they'd know the relationship would fall apart quickly upon finding out who said person is actually like, so it'd either end there or it'd slowly devolve into a terrible relationship. That and I have never understood the idea of actively searching for people to date, mostly because it seems like it wouldn't go well unless it just "happened" per se. Probably best to not actively search for romance, because the relationships that seem to last kinda just "happen" whereas the ones that don't often seem like they were almost artificially started.
Social media in general seems to set weird expectations. Men, and to an extent women as well, having completely unrealistic standards, that is, when the "standard" doesn't look worse than how things actually are. Mostly in regards to looks, but also where people just post the best parts of their life, for obvious reasons, but then the viewer is dumb enough to believe that their everyday is just completely perfect. Mostly noticed it in kids who are like 10-13, or kids who are around my age at around 14-17, at least in a way where it actually affects them that I don't think would be as easy to replicate with even regular television, let alone something more "primitive" like books. And that's not even considering the more obscure things I've noticed, although after a certain point it's starting to sound more like conspiracy theory schizobabble nonsense that are irrelevant 99% of the time even if true, rather than things which are logical.
idk, things are strange tho. very strange.
Yeah I get what you are saying.
but i guess this is the point of social media. I mean, I don’t think that anyone would like to hear about someone’s bad behavior or lifestyle. usually I dont post so much on social media but if I do I won’t post something that might cause me to look weird or something like that
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Probably so.
I suspect part of the reason for this is that rage induces clicks, likes/dislikes, responses, etc which get you more views and sometimes even money. Those who truly think and act differently are generally not going to go too far, unless they have some way to rig the system (this is easy to do, but only on a smaller scale).
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