Holding On

So my last blog entry was about saying goodbye. Turns out I suck at saying goodbye. I suck at it so badly that I didn't even do it at all!! If it's this hard to let go, maybe I'm not supposed to? Or maybe I'm just weak. I've never been good at letting go. Whether that's of people, places, things or even time. I mean, I feel like most of the people in my life at the moment are worth holding onto. I definitely need to learn how to let go of like half my wardrobe before it's covering my entire floor. But time, time is hard. I miss experiences as they're happening, just thinking about when it's over. Maybe letting go is about being more present instead of holding onto the past. I think it has to do with me hating when things change as well. I get comfortable with what I'm used to like I'm sure everyone does. Any tips on letting go?