Lesbianism, comphet, gender, explosion..

  My beautiful, lovely, wonderful, ladies of the world.. HELP!! How do you know if you're a lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual!??!!?.. So basically I've been questioning myself. I have always been fluctuating between lesbian, bi, and pan. I dunno any more. I can find myself attracted to men too but it's kind of harder to imagine a future with one?? Though to me it doesn't matter to me who I date I just kind of fall in love. Basically, I thought about abrosexual; "A fluid sexual orientation where a persons romantic and sexual attractions may shift and change over time". So I've identified as that in the past but I was told it's not real so idkk?? maybe I could just be questioning everything or maybe i'm just hormonalll... Also, demigirl and girlflux have also kind of resonated with me but I just never feel valid.. It's all so much I'm gonna explode atp because what is going on.. Yeahhh that's basically it. Omg one last thing I always get introduced as the gay friend and it makes me upset because what if that person was homophobic or something like one time my friend did that and the girl actually was homophobic I mean we ended up kind being friends but like yeah... That's all, buh bye stay amazing!! ;3