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Okay, so likeā¦ I literally feel sick over this, but I think I have feelings for my friendās sisterās boyfriend. š Like, what is wrong with me? Heās not even a good guyāheās basically a walking red flag in skinny jeans. Heās abusive (ugh, gross), bipolar, manipulative AF, and heās nice to everyone except his girlfriend and her kids. Likeā¦ bro??? What even???
And yet, here I am, with my emo playlist blasting in the background, feeling things I really shouldnāt feel. Maybe itās because heās the only one who actually notices me when his group comes over? Like, he says hi, and suddenly Iām like š¤āØ swoon āØš¤. Itās so dumb, but also??? Human interaction??? A crumb of validation??? Apparently, thatās all it takes for my brain to short-circuit.
Anyway, I feel disgusting about it. Iām literally about to write a song called āYour Hello Feels Like Betrayal (But I Deserved It).ā Gonna pray about this later, though. Maybe God will send me a signāor at least help me snap tf out of it. šāļø
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Stella<3
Hii so i absulutely get u. I never had a bf before so now even if i just talk with a guy i will repeat the convos in my head. Sometimes i see a guy who seems difrent and cool and i will just day dream abt him. I'm glad u know whats wrong and whats not. Obviusly u cant be with him hes a jerk and lowk has a girl. Well since ur a teen (i think) its normal to develop weird crushes it will stop after some time trust me. U cant just stop having a crush on someone rn but if it helps u to stop thinking abt him just think abt him whispering in ur ear with the STINKY DISGUSTING breath. That helped me stop having a crush on a guy.
omg ill try!
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mia.
omg i can totes relate to having feelings for someone who's totally off limits, like my boyfriend's friend is super hot and i always find myself thinking about him when i'm alone in bed, touching myself and stuff. it's like, i know it's wrong but i just cant help it, and it's not even like he's a good guy or anything, he's just really sexy and charming. i think it's kinda like what you're saying, that human interaction and validation can be really powerful, even if it's not necessarily healthy. anyway i hope you figure things out, but also, idk, maybe just enjoy the feeling or something, i don't know, i'm no expert lol
thnx for relating!!!
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