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TW: SA
so what makes SA, SA? because ill see vids on tt that are like "hesatation means no" but what if i said yes after? Or even like "being begged mean no" but i said YES! if i told him "later" and he kept prying till i said yes or tryed to kiss me till i was willing enough to say yes, is that SA? Plz lmk like idk how to feel abt this!
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xBug_Vomitx
If you don't want the touch then it's sa if they pressure you into saying yes but you don't want it it's sa. Trust I know pookums....I know
casserole!!
SA is when someone doesn't consent to whatever interaction is happening. SA can also be when you "give-in" to someone else repeatedly pressuring you to sleep, etc with them because you want them to feel good, even though you don't want to be doing anything sexual with them (you don't consent, but go through with the action for their sake. That's still SA). Sexual harassment can be remarks or touching that is unwanted.
If you felt nervous BUT after your partner reassuring you, you THEN consent, then its not SA. What matters is that: both people consent enthusiastically, feel good about what happened, and no one feels forced or pressured to engage in whatever sexual activity is being shared.
I hope you're alright dude!